Pronounced pan-duh. My personal word that refers to someone for whom I am experiencing panalterous attraction, a grey area characterized by extreme emotional closeness without a romantic or sexual component.

Usage Examples

  • Will you be my panda?
  • I’m going out for some pizza with my panda later tonight.
  • My panda and I are renting an apartment in downtown Kalamazoo together.
  • I’d like you to meet Taylor. We’re pandas.


The feeling needn’t be mutual for me to classify someone as my panda. Bringing the social aspect depicted in the above examples does require mutual consent.